The Importance of Funeral Pre-Planning: Insights from Elizabeth Brandenburg of Hardage-Giddens St. Johns
- Carolynn Castillo
- Mar 6
- 5 min read
Funeral planning is often overlooked, yet it is one of the most meaningful steps you can take to protect your loved ones from unnecessary stress and financial burdens. In a recent discussion with Elizabeth Brandenburg of Hardage-Giddens St. Johns, we explored the importance of funeral pre-planning, the misconceptions surrounding it, and how early planning can bring peace of mind. Whether you're considering cremation, burial, or simply looking to make informed decisions, this guide will help you understand the benefits of pre-planning your funeral arrangements.

Why Funeral Pre-Planning Matters
Many individuals put off funeral planning because it feels uncomfortable or unnecessary. However, as Elizabeth emphasized, having a plan in place ensures that your final wishes are honored and relieves your family from making difficult decisions during an emotional time. Key benefits of pre-planning include:
Financial Security – Locking in today's prices protects against inflation and rising funeral costs, which can increase by approximately 7% per decade.
Emotional Relief – Your loved ones won’t have to make tough choices under stress, eliminating uncertainty and confusion.
Personalization – You control how your funeral service will be conducted, ensuring it reflects your values, traditions, and wishes.
Avoiding Family Conflict – A written plan removes ambiguity, preventing potential disagreements among family members about your final arrangements.
Ease of Coordination – Pre-planning allows families to focus on grieving and celebrating a loved one's life rather than worrying about logistics.
Understanding the Funeral Planning Process
Elizabeth provided a detailed breakdown of what goes into pre-planning a funeral, explaining that it goes beyond simply choosing between burial or cremation. The process includes:
1. Choosing the Type of Final Disposition
Cremation – A popular choice, currently selected by approximately 65% of families, offering flexibility and cost savings.
Traditional Burial – A classic option that includes purchasing a burial plot, casket, and other associated services.
Natural (Green) Burial – An environmentally friendly option that avoids embalming and synthetic materials, allowing for natural decomposition in a designated cemetery.
2. Selecting a Funeral Package
Options include a full-service funeral, a simple graveside service, or a celebration of life.
Services can be held at a funeral home, church, private venue, or gravesite.
Personal touches such as music, floral arrangements, and photo displays can be arranged in advance.
3. Locking in Costs
Funeral costs increase over time, making pre-planning a smart financial decision.
Payment plans are available, allowing families to spread costs over time instead of paying a lump sum during an emergency.
4. Documenting Your Wishes
Completing a Personal Planning Guide ensures your preferences are legally recorded and accessible to your loved ones.
Decisions include the type of service, music, readings, attendees, and other personal elements.
5. Coordinating with Estate Planning
Many financial advisors and estate planners recommend including funeral pre-planning in a comprehensive financial plan.
Ensuring beneficiary designations, life insurance, and funeral plans align with your estate planning goals prevents unintended complications.
The Emotional and Financial Impact on Families
Many people don’t realize the emotional and financial impact of not pre-planning a funeral. When a loved one passes unexpectedly, families are left scrambling to make arrangements, often under immense stress. In some cases, financial strain can lead to additional burdens, as funeral costs can range from $3,200 for a basic cremation to $15,000+ for a traditional burial.
Elizabeth highlighted that many families regret not having these discussions sooner. By making these decisions in advance, you are giving your family a gift—the ability to grieve without additional stress.
Additionally, many people are unaware of the financial support available for veterans, which can cover burial expenses at national cemeteries. Hardage-Giddens St. Johns ensures veterans and their families understand these benefits and can take full advantage of them.
Benefits of Choosing Hardage-Giddens St. Johns
As part of the Dignity Memorial network, Hardage-Giddens St. Johns offers exclusive benefits to those who choose to pre-plan with them. Some of these benefits include:
Transferability of Plans – If you relocate, your pre-planned funeral arrangements move with you to any of the 2,000+ Dignity Memorial locations across North America.
Flexible Payment Plans – Options to spread payments over time, making funeral planning more affordable.
Veterans Benefits – Special discounts and assistance for veterans and their families, including free burial at national cemeteries.
Compassion Helpline – Up to 13 months of grief counseling support for family members, staffed by professionals specializing in bereavement.
Bereavement Travel Assistance – Helping loved ones arrange flights, hotels, and car rentals at discounted rates when traveling for a funeral.
Service Guarantees – A 100% service guarantee ensures that if any aspect of the service does not meet expectations, adjustments will be made at no cost.
Relocation Assistance – If a surviving spouse or loved one moves after a pre-planned service is arranged, they can transfer their plans to another Dignity Memorial provider.
Conclusion
While funeral planning is a sensitive topic, it is an essential part of financial and emotional preparedness. By taking proactive steps, you ensure your wishes are honored and your family is spared unnecessary stress. Hardage-Giddens St. Johns provides compassionate support and expert guidance in navigating this process. If you haven’t started pre-planning, now is the perfect time to begin. Taking the time to plan today can ease the burden on your family tomorrow, allowing them to focus on remembering and celebrating your life rather than managing stressful logistics.
Document Summary:
Elizabeth Brandenburg of Hardage-Giddens St. Johns shared key insights on funeral pre-planning and why it is a crucial step in financial and end-of-life planning. Main takeaways include:
Pre-planning a funeral ensures financial security, emotional relief, and personalization of services.
Many families make last-minute decisions under stress, leading to emotional and financial burdens.
Funeral planning involves choosing between cremation, burial, or natural burial and documenting one’s wishes in a legally recognized plan.
Hardage-Giddens St. Johns offers benefits such as price protection, bereavement support, travel assistance, and veteran discounts.
Estate planners and financial advisors recommend including funeral planning as part of a comprehensive financial strategy.
Elizabeth emphasized that funeral pre-planning is a final gift of love to one’s family, ensuring that their wishes are carried out without added stress or conflict. The ability to transfer funeral plans to different locations and lock in prices makes pre-planning an invaluable decision.
About Elizabeth Brandenburg: Elizabeth Brandenburg specializes in funeral pre-planning at Hardage-Giddens St. Johns. With years of experience in helping families navigate end-of-life arrangements, she is passionate about providing guidance and support to individuals looking to secure their funeral plans in advance. Having personally experienced the challenges of sudden loss, Elizabeth is dedicated to ensuring families are prepared and informed about their options.
About Hardage-Giddens St. Johns: Hardage-Giddens St. Johns is a trusted provider of funeral and cremation services in Jacksonville, Florida. As part of the Dignity Memorial network, they offer a range of pre-planning solutions designed to provide financial security and peace of mind. Their team of compassionate professionals is committed to honoring every family's wishes and providing meaningful services that celebrate life.
Website: https://www.dignitymemorial.com/
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